I’m a Very Exciting person, Not Really

Well, I made it four days before failing. Being an unemployed person who rarely leaves the house right now, I guess that shouldn’t be very surprising. If I don’t do anything, what do I have to talk about. My never ending job search? “Today I applied for four more jobs! Two of them were part-time, on-call gigs because I’m desperate for any experience in the field I went to school for!” Not really exciting stuff.

I have found that I have a serious lack of experience for PR jobs. Everything I’ve looked at wants minimum three years experience, and these are entry level positions! Not just stuff I’ve found on Indeed, but actually googling “San Diego PR agencies” and going through one by one looking at the career pages. Either internships or account person jobs with minimum three years experience. HOW AM I SUPPOSED TO GET THIS EXPERIENCE IF NOBODY WILL LOOK AT MY RESUME SINCE I ONLY HAVE ONE YEAR EXPERIENCE!? It’s very frustrating. I’m about to just start sending my resume out even if I’m not actually qualified, don’t know what else to do at this point. I’ve considered applying for the internships, but I can’t afford to work for free. I have zero income right now and Sallie Mae is threatening legal action if they don’t get a payment soon.

On another note, I’ve had some luck with my back pain management. My birthday was in January and the parental units got me a 10-class package for a local yoga studio, Reach Yoga. I go three times a week, and to make my classes stretch further I pay for one of the $5 drop-in classes (they do them on Tuesdays and Thursdays). That has made a huge difference; I really think not only does it stretch everything out, but increasing my core strength helps support and protect my spine. I have no idea if that’s actually the case (I’m not trained in science or health), that’s just my theory, either way it’s helping a lot.

A friend also told me about turmeric; she takes if for acne because of its anti-inflammatory properties, but suggested it might help with pain, rather than taking ibuprofen. I started taking that in the morning along with my iron and probiotics and it seems to also be helping. I hope it is, the more I can avoid chemicals and ingredients I can’t pronounce, the better. And I still drink my skullcap tea when the pain flares up.

Right, well, that’s about the extent of my life right now; send out applications, go to yoga, stop myself from mindlessly snacking because of boredom. I don’t even have Netflix of Hulu right now, no money in the bank, so the payment didn’t run. Hopefully that will change soon!

Day Four- Pain Management

Well that was pathetic, I only made it three days before failing. I think that was my longest streak on PokemonGo too, plus that was how many days I lasted doing yoga every morning when I signed up for Daily Burn. I think it’s safe to say I have commitment issues ha!

The Saturday after Thanksgiving my back went out. I was in a car accident in 2012 and since this was pre-ACA I didn’t have health insurance, so I never went and saw a doctor. I also turned down an ambulance on scene because I knew I wouldn’t be able to pay the bill. Because of those decisions my back will flare up from time to time and hurt for a few days, but it didn’t really start getting bad until about a year ago; before that it might hurt for a day or two and mostly just uncomfortable. Now it will last for a week or longer and be absolutely excruciating.

The last time it flared up was in August, about two weeks after I moved back in with the parents. I went to a massage therapist, swam in the ocean for about an hour, then went on a bike ride. The next day I was back to normal. People really do underestimate the healing power of the ocean. My theory (please keep in mind, I’m not a scientist, this is just my opinion) is that floating in the water helps take gravity and pressure off my spine. Salt water has more buoyancy than fresh water, so you can float with more support. Sitting and standing contributes to the pain because it puts all the pressure on the base of your spine, whereas floating in the ocean helps take that stress off my body. (Again, I’m not a scientist or a medical professional, this is just my theory and opinion!)

But since it’s December and the water is COLD I can’t go float around right now. And that really sucks. I don’t like using painkillers or other types of pharmaceuticals; I’m not a chemist, I don’t have the training or schooling to understand how all those ingredients work and how they will interact with each other. I also drink, and there are a lot of things you’re not supposed to take with alcohol, so I’m not going to push my luck with that.

Here is what I do feel comfortable doing:

Massage Therapy: Every month I see my therapist and work on my back. She’s awesome, she’s really strong and really gets in there and works everything out. I ended up double booking my November appointment with paddle board yoga and cancelling my massage. Within a week I was in pain. Never again will I skip an appointment. I was able to get in about a week later, but with a different therapist and it just wasn’t the same, she didn’t get in there as aggressively. For anybody in the San Diego area who may need a good massage therapist, I highly recommend Jen at Healing Arts Massage and Wellness Center in Pacific Beach.

Skullcap: This is an herb I got at a little shop in Ocean Beach called Bountiful Herbs. It’s great for nerve pain; it can help soothe muscle tension, relieve anxiety, and calm spasms. I make it as a tea a few times a day and it has definitely helped. Plus it’s cold out right now and tea is always nice when it’s chilly!

Breathing: I do some breathing exercises and light stretching throughout the day. Sitting really bothers me and standing for long periods can get painful. I can feel muscles in my back, especially between my shoulder blades, tighten up so I’ll just stop whatever I’m doing and do my stretches. I did some digging on the old Google and found multiple pages/sources stating that breathing can be a big help with pain. While it doesn’t necessarily fix the cause of pain, it can help release other muscles that have tightened up.

Some things I want to try:

Float Therapy: While at the herb shop I picked up a flyer for a float therapy place in OB called Reset and they do sensory deprivation therapy. Now, as someone who watched Stranger Things, this kind of freaks me out lol! Plus I have a fear of dark pools, so the idea of being in water in total darkness is unnerving. But it also seems like the closest I can get to floating in the ocean this time of year, so I called to see what they’re all about. The guy I talked to told me it’s actually really beneficial for pain relief since they use medical grade Epsom salt and the water is body temperature. The flyer is advertising $50 for 90 min. Still thinking about that one, maybe I’ll ask for an early Solstice present.

Yoga: I would love to start doing yoga on a regular basis again. I’m a chubby girl, I love beer and pizza, and I’m comfortable with myself, but I think strengthening my core muscles will help support my back better. But this comes down to money, yoga gyms (are they called gyms? studios? I’m not sure) are expensive and I can’t afford that until I get a full time job.

Medical Marijuana: I would like to get my card, but as California just legalized recreational marijuana I’m going to see how this one plays out. I also get migraines and chronic tension headaches, I’ve been told marijuana is really helpful for that too. Plus being unemployed right now, I can’t justify the money.

If anybody has any other suggestions for pain relief please feel free to share!

Day three, very sucky

Day three! Didn’t actually do anything today, one of my fabulous (read awful) headaches set in this morning and just progressed until I was puking up my lunch. Yeah, it was a great day.

I did still send out two applications and did some dishes, so i still got shit done. Hopefully tomorrow will be better. Here’s a pretty picture of the beach!

Uncrustables Make Great Tits

Well, day two of my personal writing and biking challenge! I feel so accomplished, lol.

It was actually a semi-busy day today; the electricians came out to work on the kitchen, did some laundry and other chores. I’m so domestic y’all. I did go on a bike ride, it was a short one, but I got a lot of other stuff done today too, so I’m not upset =)

Just toodled around the bay, then up the boardwalk, wandered out on the pier (they’re getting ready to put up the Solstice (or christmas, if you prefer holidays that STOLE pagan traditions) tree. It was gorgeous out, but the wind was pretty chilly. Jeez my life is dull…

Personal Challenge

I mentioned before I’m back in San Diego. It’s awesome; bike ride on the boardwalk, leaning stand-up paddle board (turns out my balance is worse than I thought!), tons of farmer’s markets. But job hunting is still proving difficult, ad now that we’re in the holiday season, I think it’s not going to get any easier.

The temporary project I was working on ended today, so that’s pretty scary. It also means I’m going to be spending a lot of time in the house. I’m still sending out AT LEAST 2-3 applications a day, but to help keep my sanity I’m giving myself a new challenge: bike ride everyday and write about what I saw.

Rather than going shopping on black Friday, we did a family bike ride. It turned out to be a beautiful day and we went all the way around the bay. There were a lot of people out enjoying the sunshine, it was nice to see so many families out enjoying time together instead of buying stuff. I’ve ever really liked black Friday, it’s super materialistic and “stuff driven” to me.

It’s good to be home

I’ve been back in San Diego for a few months now, and it’s so nice to be back! I’m still looking for a full time work doing what I took out A LOT of debt for, but right now I have a part time gig that is starting to allow me to catch up on other bills.

The best part is I ride my bike everywhere; to work, to the store, to get coffee, to cruise down the boardwalk, to go the corner market to get some delicious local craft beer! You get the idea.

I though I’d have an easier time finding a job, but that’s not proving accurate. There are a lot more opportunities down here, but there are also a lot more people vying for them. I’m just trying to keep positive and just keep sending out those resumes. Looking for a job is like buying a new swimsuit; you think everything looks okay but by the end of the day you just feel really bad about yourself lol!

From The Onion

You can always rely on The Onion for a good laugh. But in all seriousness, please don’t eat stinky foods on the bus, it really is unpleasant.

http://www.theonion.com/article/bus-passenger-believes-she-lives-in-world-where-cu-26595

Crash between bus, tractor-trailer on Highway 395 injures seven

This happened yesterday in the Victor Valley area of San Bernardino County. I don’t think I’ve ever seen a bus that mangled before. Story from the Victorville Daily Press

 

 

A Victor Valley Transit Authority Bus and a tractor-trailer were involved in a traffic collision at the intersection of Highway 395 and Bartlett Avenue in Adelanto on Wednesday afternoon. The cause is under investigation. David Pardo, Daily Press

Paola Baker, Daily Press
Posted Jul. 13, 2016 at 2:35 PM

Updated Jul 13, 2016 at 5:25 PM

ADELANTO — A collision involving a transit bus and a tractor-trailer on Highway 395 left seven people injured Wednesday afternoon, authorities said.

The crash was first reported just after 1:30 p.m. at the intersection of Highway 395 and Bartlett Avenue and involved a Victor Valley Transit bus and a Kenworth tractor-trailer, authorities said. San Bernardino County Sheriff’s Department personnel on scene said the bus was headed west on Bartlett Avenue while the tractor-trailer was headed north on Highway 395 when the collision occurred, but further details were not available.

A total of seven people on the bus, including the driver, were reported to be injured. Six were taken to local hospitals and firefighters had to use the “Jaws of Life” to extricate the bus driver, San Bernardino County Fire Department personnel said. She was then transported to a trauma center, but the severity of her injuries was not known.

Victor Valley Station Cpl. Robbie DeBois said it appeared that the driver of the tractor-trailer did not suffer any injuries.

County Fire Capt. Dan Nelson said five County Fire units responded. The northbound lanes of Highway 395 were initially shut down between Bartlett Avenue and Air Expressway while southbound traffic was diverted to Bartlett Avenue.

Caltrans said on its official Twitter account just before 3:30 p.m. that both northbound and southbound lanes of Highway 395 between Chamberlaine Way and Air Expressway were closed. It was not known when the lanes would reopen.

The cause of the crash remains unknown, DeBois said, and Victor Valley Sheriff’s Station deputies are investigating.

Paola Baker may be reached at 760-955-5332 or PBaker@VVDailyPress.com. Follow her on Twitter at @DP_PaolaBaker.

Where is the Metro Service?

I’ve said it before and I will keep saying it until it happens, THE PEOPLE WHO RUN TRANSIT SYSTEMS SHOULD HAVE TO USE THOSE SYSTEMS ON A DAILY BASIS!!! If they had to rely on the bus, subway, light-rail, train, etc to get to work on time or run an errand that should be simple but takes an hour, I honestly believe public transit could run so much smoother and more efficiently.

These people are so detached from who their customer base actually is. I don;t understand why everything stops running so early on Sundays, do they really think the poor only work M-F? No! We’re the ones who work two jobs and usually go straight from one to the next. We also work 7 days a week. I usually end up having to walk two miles on Sundays after woke because my connection stops running at 7pm. That’s insane!

While I do think expanding lines into all areas is important (especially the beach, get people in and out more efficiently), ignoring the people who actually NEED transit is pure BS. It’s just like how in my city we don’t have sidewalks and streetlights on a main fucking road, city leaders don’t see us as deserving these basic safety services because we’re poor, which means we don’t equal tax revenue.

From the Los Angeles Times, posted June 21, 2016

Opinion

Metro’s transit plan gives short shrift to L.A. County’s working-class cities. A state bill can fix that

Passengers ride the Metro Gold Line train from APU/Citrus station to Los Angeles Union station on March 5. (Los Angeles Times)

Karina Macias

Imagine there are several Los Angeles County cities that make up one of the densest urban areas in the country, where much of the young, transit-dependent, ethnically mixed population commutes daily to jobs in other parts of the county. This would be one of the first areas to get a new rail line to the regionwide transit hub at L.A. Union Station, right?

Not if it’s the board of the Los Angeles County Metropolitan Transportation Authoritycalling the shots.

This sums up the situation for residents of the Gateway Cities of southeast L.A. County, a collection of dense (my city, Huntington Park, has about 60,000 people packed into three square miles), mostly working-class communities conspicuously absent from Metro’s plans to build out its rail system over the coming decades. In fact, Metro’s board recently delayed its projected completion date of the long-sought Eco-Rapid light-rail line 20 years to 2047. This line would span from Artesia to Bob Hope Airport and connect the points in between to L.A. Union Station; by one estimate, Eco Rapid would be the second-most-traveled line in Metro’s network.

Meanwhile, Metro is spending billions of dollars chasing so-called choice riders in West L.A. and the San Gabriel Valley, opening the Expo Line to Santa Monica, the Gold Line to Azusa and slowly (and expensively) tunneling under Wilshire Boulevard to extend the Purple Line subway. Although it’s important to entice more drivers out their cars and into trains or buses, these areas can’t be described as economically transit dependent — and they’re getting rail decades before communities that are, including Huntington Park, Cudahy, Bell, Bell Gardens and other cities.

Metro’s plan for L.A. transit would be transformative… with one small fix

This is why those of us pushing to restructure Metro’s leadership believe that the agency’s governing board needs to be balanced with more voices.

In their June 1 op-ed article, Zev Yaroslavsky and Richard Katz accuse state Sen. Tony Mendoza (D-Artesia), who has written a bill to expand Metro’s board, as “meddling” in the agency, which they describe as “on a roll.” Those of us who live in the ill-served Gateway Cities don’t feel Metro is on much of a roll; Yaroslavsky’s and Katz’s insistence otherwise shows just how important it is for the agency’s board to gain new perspectives.

The Metro board currently has 13 voting members. Five are L.A. County supervisors and four are members of the Los Angeles City Council. The remaining four voting members directly represent the residents of the 87 cities in Los Angeles County that account for 51% of the population. This imbalance is reflected in Metro’s decision-making and priority-setting, such as its two-decade delay of the Eco-Rapid line. Mendoza’s bill (SB 1472) would, among other things, add five more members to the Metro board from those 87 cities. This is not a local issue, and it’s certainly not a power play, but rather an update to the original state legislation that created Metro in 1992 that will provide better representation for those who live in smaller, under-served cities.

For residents of the Gateway Cities, representation on Metro’s board and better transit service is about more than just fairness and social and environmental justice; it matters to our everyday lives. As a young woman growing up in Huntington Park, I thought of owning a vehicle as a luxury; this is still the case for many families in the Gateway Cities. I didn’t own my first car until I graduated from college in 2010, so bus and rail were the only transportation options available to me throughout my middle school, high school and college days. Yes, Los Angeles County has “progressed a long way toward developing a regional transit system,” as Yaroslavsky and Katz believe. However, that progress is still an elusive concept in my community.

The lack of progress isn’t for a lack of effort on the part of the communities in southeast L.A. County and elsewhere. These communities have worked tirelessly to make projects such as Eco-Rapid a reality, and yet they barely register on Metro’s radar. Sen. Mendoza’s bill to bring more voices onto Metro’s board will go a long way toward changing that and bringing rail transit to the residents of Los Angeles County who need it most.

Smells like Omnitrans

Dude in front of me on the bus. First off, stop using the seat as an arm rest, there is not enough space in between the seats. Second, take a shower and put on some deodorant. You smell like last nights alcohol and a lot of bad decisions. The bus is a public space, we’ve all gotta deal with each other, let’s at least try to make it tolerable